YOU

You... You are probably wondering why is the topic name you? Because this post is all about you,yes you! When in life you go through trails,troubles,deep en dark moments we tend to lose our values of how much we are worth. We forget how precious we are and we look down on ourselves we tend to put ourselfs down in front of others, which is not right.Never make yourself feel bad to make others feel better. To love and be loved is great, but the greatest of all is self love, love for yourself. In my opinion, the way you take care of yourself determines the way you care for others.If you treat yourself with great respect will you never think twice to treat the next person with respect. When we go through bad things in life, make sure you take care of yourself.They say your only as good as you feel,you are. Dress for success, because you deserve it all the way through the way. The motivation most of the time you give yourself,goes beyond and that's what takes you through in life. If you care for yourself and you go through life's trauma don't feel sorry for yourself or make others feel sorry for you.Fight and conquer is much better than pity from others. So by ending this chapter for now by the words of "The way you see yourself is more important than what people think o say" A cat looks in the mirror and see's a lion. What do you SEE?

25 Things ladies don't realize!

You HAVE to read all of them and if you don't your going to come across 
with problems in your relationship for the next month! 
1. Guys may be flirting around all day, but before they go to sleep, 
they always think about the girl they truly care about.... 
2. Guys are more emotional then you think, if they loved you at one 
point, it'll take them a lot longer then you think to let you go, and 
it hurts every second that they try. 
3. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile. 
4. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to. 
5. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved. 
6. Guys don't care how gorgeous you are. 
7. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know 
what?..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is 
far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something 
wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out. 
8. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to 
listen to him. You don't need to give advice. 
9. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you. 
10. Guys love you more than you love them 
11. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. They rarely use 
beautiful or gorgeous. If a guy uses that, he loves you or likes you a 
whole heck of a lot. 
12. No matter how much guys talk about whats on the outside,personalityis key. 
13. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she 
doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to 
figure out what it meant but some know that it was just prolly nothing 
so if it is supposed to mean something then make that meaning 
noticable so that they can react on the spot. 
14. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will 
think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he 
spends time with the girl. 
15.If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking 
it and he is really thinking about something 
16. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. 
Guys rarely say that. 
17.When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, 
"Please come and listen to me 
18. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't 
happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up. 
19. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely 
thinking something. 
20. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable 
decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to 
them. 
21.Some men are more sensitive than women

22. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too 
stubborn to admit it. 
23.NOT ALL GUYS ARE JACKASSES 
Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of them 
24.When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he 
really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible 
25.Even if you dump a guy months ago and he loved you he probably 
still does and if he had one wish it would be you to come back into 
his life